245 How to OUTSMART The System You Were Born Into

Introduction to Feeling Trapped

0:00most people are feeling trapped and overwhelmed by the system right now you wake up in a box that you have to pay to live in you get into another box that you have to pay to drive and you drive to yet a third box where you work just hard enough to pay for the first two boxes and maybe at the end of the month there's a little bit extra left over and after a while life starts to feel like this hamster wheel that you simply cannot get off of and meanwhile we're seeing that there are a handful of people who seem to control everything they appear to control the systems the structures the governments the corporations even the flow of money itself so the average person looks at the

0:34world today and thinks how can i possibly ever win inside of a system that is so rigged but what if the system isn't actually rigged what if the entire structure of reality is a collective projection of human consciousness and what if the key to unlock the door to your own freedom is held inside of your

Episode Overview

0:51own mind in today's episode i'm going to unpack all of that with you we're going to talk about how reality works we're going to talk about the global elite we're going to talk about how to put everything that you are watching on the news and in the world today in a proper perspective on this episode of a changed mind welcome to a changed mind a journey into the topics that matter to you most from the neuroscience and spirituality of mindset and personal growth to groundbreaking strategies for health wealth and relationships to open and honest conversations about pressing global issues such as the

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Creating Your Own Reality

2:39all right guys i've been wanting to do this episode for a while and a lot of you have been asking you're talking about things like the epstein class or the war with iran or what's happening with our economy or the fact that we're voting people into office and then they're not following the policies that we ask them to enforce all the stuff from the financial cartels the medical cartels the military industrial complex all the stuff that's going on behind the scenes the blackmail the this the that we're going to unpack it in today's episode and i'm going to help you gain clarity around what's actually happening and

3:14we're going to start with where we usually start which is you are creating your own reality yes you are creating your own reality i know that you know that i know sometimes it doesn't feel like that's the case you're like i can't be creating all that garbage out there i can't be creating the child trafficking rings i can't be creating you know this refugee crisis i can't be creating food shortages i can't be creating saying you're very powerful you we are creating all of that and it's important that we understand how and it's important that we acknowledge that see what's happening is you know you create your own reality you change your limiting beliefs around money and you become

3:48a more prosperous and abundant person you change your beliefs around your own worthiness and reality starts to mirror back that self-confidence and that self-esteem you start living in more possibility and you start to eliminate the problems in your life and solutions start to show up you know this you've read thinking grow rich by napoleon hill you've done the shelf help you've been listening to shows like this what's important to understand is that you got eight billion people who are simultaneously doing that on the planet together so it's messy i want you to think about it as like a tapestry with eight billion different threads being woven together so on a daily basis like you're

4:24bumping up against other people's realities you're bumping up against the stuff that they want you're bumping up against the stuff that they don't want you're experiencing their traumas and their unresolved limiting beliefs and their childhood stories it's all co-mingling into this great tapestry of human beings and so what we're seeing when we look out beyond our personal experience and we look at the world at large is you're seeing manifestation at scale see most people think about manifestation as like my goal is my money my relationships my reality but humanity has a

4:57collective nervous system you know your nervous system or your vibration or frequency is what's creating your reality if you took all of humanity together and you looked at what that nervous system was projecting into the world you'd get the world that you see you'd get all the stuff and so if we want to change the system we don't actually change the system by trying to change the system we change the system by changing ourselves this was like what gandhi said it's like be the change that you want to see in the world now i'm going to talk to you about how this works because it can feel very

The System and Fear

5:28overwhelming when you start thinking about ai and companies like palantir and domestic surveillance and the fact that our government is watching us and you know they're controlling the you know monetary supply and they're moving us away from you know fiat currency to these central bank digital currencies and then they can just shut you off feels scary doesn't it feel scary that's the point fear is what supports the system you know i don't know if you've ever noticed but the news is not particularly optimistic tends to be pessimistic i don't know the last time i checked and i don't know if you've

6:04also noticed that it can be very addictive you know i had my own personal addictive experiences with alcohol and drugs and pornography but there's a thing called fear porn it's like you can't stop watching it i find myself still doing it i told my wife the other day i'm like i need another break from watching the news i'm like it's a weird thing i get to like four o'clock five o'clock in the afternoon i've been putting in a good day's work and then all of a sudden i need to like see what's going on in the world see what next stupid thing some politician has done that affects the rest of us see what next you know drama is unfolding as we discover that we've

6:36been lied to by our governments that corporations have captured the governmental bodies that are supposed to be protecting us like the epa or the american pediatric association everybody's lying to us it's alluring and the reason why it's alluring is because you still hold fear in your nervous system we still hold fear in our nervous systems and so there's a trigger match the system knows that we've accumulated think about this for a minute think about it you've accumulated your parents programs your parents accumulated the programs or traumas from their parents

7:09so now you got four people your grandparents funneling into you then you got their parents and their parents and their parents and their parents you are the byproduct of thousands and thousands and thousands of people both your gifts and your traumas and most of the trauma that we experienced over the course of the last 2 000 years would never work through it's not like people were doing you know behavioral psychology or tapping or ayahuasca ceremonies or 5 meo or psilocybin or whatever people are doing now so like we're at this new baseline of consciousness where all of a sudden

7:43we're becoming self-aware at pretty significant scale but there's all that trauma waiting for us you know it wasn't that long ago that like there was a significant likelihood that out of nowhere some other tribe would come over and rape and kill you and everybody you know your family your children think about how traumatic that is we still see it happening today it's going on right now in the world which is waking so many of us up that's why the trauma is there it's it's to be a mirror to help us wake up and say wow what is going on with humanity i do not want to see this anymore i do

8:17not want to be this anymore but understand that it's like really what you look at in terms of what's being projected onto the screen of reality right now and all this craziness and i think epstein is really the amplification of all of it we're like holy shit what has been going on by who and they still control the world and we don't even have access to the information and the president and the politicians who told us who ran their campaign on the fact that we would get access to this are now doing the same thing as the last administration and the previous administration

8:49the previous administration guys that's all by design this by design it's by the design of consciousness we wake up as we we are confronted by our traumas and so think about it we are constipated with trauma right now we're in the process of taking the biggest shit that the human beings have ever seen we got to let it all out and it's coming all out that's not to say any of the stuff is okay morally or according to what i would view is islamo-jewish christian principles like real principles of

9:22living and spirituality none of it is okay but we have to understand what it is because if we don't understand what it is we're going to continue to feed it or to try to change it or to give it attention and that just continues to perpetuate the system what's happening right now there is and has

Battle for Your Attention

9:39been for a long long time a battle for your attention you know why because your attention is soul your attention is consciousness your attention where you direct your attention is really you because it's not your body it's not what you say it's not what you do it's not your height you are the sum total of where you place your attention and how you interpret reality that's your consciousness that's a decent definition of consciousness that's your consciousness well there's a collective consciousness

10:11and consciousness which is inside is always out picturing outside it starts inside and then it materializes outside so we've accumulated all this trauma for many many many many many many many many many it is materialized into a traumatic system and so now we are confronted with ourselves that's what it is and you say well but that specific part of the system i didn't create that no i get it it's a collective reality but just notice because if you become triggered by what you're seeing out there

10:42it's still in you it's still in you if you're not living the game and very few people are if any basically saying i know what this is i'm going to ignore it i'm going to pay it no attention i'm going to continue to focus my attention on the reality that i want and i'm going to work with the creator my higher power towards the creation of that and i'm going to live in my joy i'm going to live as neville goddard and his teacher abdullah said live from the end live from the end act as if if you are not

11:13doing that and instead you're like i can't believe they did this or i'm bothered or scared by this or i'm disturbed by that that disturbance that bother that scare means there's a trigger in you still you're still holding trauma in your nervous system and our job as the leading edge of consciousness is to be aware when we are reactive and to work with the reaction not work with the thing that we are reacting to i'll say that again our job is to work with the reaction not to try to work with or work against the thing we are reacting to by the way this is a do as david says not as david does

11:49i'm getting better and better at this but i'm still far from perfect but we should not speak about anything we see out there that we do not like and you say but dave that is so uncaring don't we need to talk about it no we don't you need to starve what you see externally of your attention and your energy you don't speak about it you don't focus on it you don't talk about it you use it as a springboard to repel off of to help you get clear on what you want to create you see censorship out there you hold

12:20the future for free speech you see a genocide out there you hold the container for humanity living in harmony that's what you do that's how we create but right now the system is vying for your attention make no mistake it understands how it works it understands the more that it can trigger you and upset you the more reinforced it becomes i mean think about it what is news what do you watch the news it's a news program it's a program we're being programmed it's a program you ever seen any

12:52of those montages where it's like a hundred different newscasters and they're all saying the same script it's a program stop paying attention to the news keep consuming content like this it's important to understand that the system is vying for your attention which is vying for your soul and your attention is the creative power of the universe and if you want to be free from the system you have to learn how to liberate your attention you must achieve attention sovereignty you must be unbothered by what you see out there one of the great spiritual teachers i have him in my wall

13:24here in my studio his book changed my life autobiography of a yogi his name is paramahansa yogananda he was a indian teacher in the 1900s and he said the true yogi must learn to stand unshaken amidst the crash of breaking worlds the world is breaking right now and that's a good thing it's a good thing we need the thing to break a lot of people are going to take what i'm about to say the wrong way but but when you look at what's happening in the united states and the elimination of dollar hegemony the removal of

13:56the dollar as the global reserve currency and you look at what's happening in terms of the weakening of our status in the world right now thank god thank god because the united states of america is not the united states of america that you and i hold as the united states of america it has been captured and utilized to implement an agenda around the world that does not align with our values this is a difficult thing for people to understand all of these things aren't happening because the system

14:26is resetting because we are now ready think about how intelligent this is we now have the tools to stand unshaken amidst the crash of breaking worlds to witness the trauma but not react to it that is the way that we become the instruments of change that is the way that we can digest or metabolize the trauma by bearing witness to it while not reacting to it and that's a challenging thing to do there are a lot of wrongs in the world you've experienced wrongs i've experienced wrongs the question is

14:58can we live according to what i would call islamo jewish christian principles because when i think you really look at the core teachings i mean again people will be upset at what i'm about to say that's fine you don't like something i say and you want to unsubscribe then just you were probably at a different frequency because i'm just sharing my thoughts you don't have to agree with it this is a conversation and a discourse i'm here because i want to help you perceive reality properly so that you don't feel like a victim and helpless inside the system but you realize the system is a boogeyman

15:32and we'll talk in a moment about yeah but dave like the system has a real implication on me in my life i'm going to explain to you i will david explain how to get out of the system because i feel like i've got one foot out of the system right now but i digress i'm losing track of things i believe that the old testament the new testament and the quran they're they're the best trilogy in the world they're better than lord of the rings as much as i love lord of the rings better than the avengers as much as i love the avengers old testament new testament quran that's an old testament moses brings the law new

16:05testament jesus is the law quran muhammad says we got to scale beyond our own individual development of consciousness and we need to live as a conscious society that's it one two three these are the teachings these are the principles i'm getting so fired up over here i got to figure out how we get back on track we are creating our own reality we have to be able to stand in front of the trauma the system and not react to it that's what jesus meant when he said turn the other cheek when your

16:35enemy strikes you what do you do do you strike back do you complain about it to your neighbors you would think if the teaching was talk about it jesus would have come and made that the central tenant of his ministry the guy comes he gets crucified at the age of 33 he's got the deepest relationship with god that many people say he was god and and you think if what we were supposed to do was fight against the system he would have said fight against the system you would think if what we were supposed to do was talk to other people about it and gossip and complain about it or worry about it he would have said worry about all the things out there that's not what he said he said forgive and turn

17:10the other cheek i believe turning the other cheek is the greatest metaphysical distinction that ever existed what jesus it's a physical distinction if you think about it one cheek gets struck by your enemy you turn the other cheek what does that mean when you notice when you notice the mirror of who we have become which is the materialization of the trauma in the world bring your attention in the other direction that's what he's saying pay attention to that which the trauma inspires you to become that is

17:43greater that is more noble that is more expansive that is more loving this is the practice so it may be alluring to keep talking about epstein i'm doing it here but that's supposed to be just a data point oh shit holy cow i'm now now no longer part of the uni party where i vote democrat or i vote republican but no matter who i vote for i get the same thing you know in my mind that's the great gift there's so many gifts of donald trump i know some of you voted for him some of you hate him but the great gift is he

18:15promised to be something different and he wasn't what was it george bush jr once said fool me once shame on me fool me twice and then he got confused but the point is it's like now we know now we know obama biden bush clinton trump so what do you want to do what do you guys want to do you want to keep complaining about it or do you want to start activating new possibilities you know one of the ways that i became aware of how the macro manifests from our internal and in particular we're talking

18:49about the trauma aspect of our inner world materializing as the system itself taking away our speech taking away our freedom taking away our privacy these are things that have been taken away from us for a long long time so it's a great fear that is held collectively in the nervous system

Healing and Trauma

19:03my wife and my mother-in-law and i had a conversation once and we were buying a new home and my mother-in-law had sold hers and my mother-in-law was living with us and the conversation unfolded and something like well what happens if something happens to my wife and i was like well what do you mean she's like well could i be kicked out of the home like i'm selling my home and i'm coming to live with you guys but they were talking about like putting her her name on the title or the deed or whatever it was so she had some ownership so she felt some security which totally makes sense what came out in that conversation was she said well what if something happens to carol and then you meet some other woman

19:33and then she doesn't want me to live in the home and i have nowhere to live and you kick me out and i was like holy shit because if there's one of a handful of patterns that we've heard over the last decade i mean we've done i don't know 10 000 15 000 coaching conversations as an organization there's a fear that we won't be able to pay our mortgage we won't be able to pay our rent we'll be kicked out of our homes and then we all end up living under some bridge somewhere together it's like it's the one of the biggest patterns and it makes sense because there was a long time where it was a real threat that we wouldn't have shelter and we wouldn't survive for most of us that's not

20:06a real threat right now but our nervous system doesn't know the difference and so this was at the same time that we discovered that the big private equity firms what is it black rock state street vanguard something like that they're buying up all the residential housing to control residential housing to make housing unaffordable for people and the byproduct of that is people can't afford to live in their homes and i was like oh my god the inner always out pictures itself it always expresses itself outward into the system and what happens and goddard talks about this neville goddard he talks about this is the third dimensional reality but there's a fourth dimension and all the creation

20:39actually comes from the fourth dimension as potential and it materializes into the third dimension as reality in other words reality can be anything but it will be something and what it becomes is what we focus on and so often our focus is on fear so here's there's millions or billions of people on the planet worried that they're not going to have shelter it activates an idea in the field that makes its way to a willing participant at black rock who walks into the where do we deploy all of our capital meeting and says hey i have an idea why don't we buy a presidential housing why so the people's fears can

21:13become the realities but this is what's happening with everything this is what's happening with the whole system so you have to understand this because when you understand this you can play the game differently you can start playing the game the way you were meant to play the game not the way the system encourages you to play the game you have to disassociate yourself from the system from the fear and the only way to do that is to heal yourself you got to heal your resentments you got to forgive your resentments you got to identify your limiting beliefs and you have to transform your limiting beliefs you have you have to look at your core traumas and you have to work with them deal with

21:46them we got a ton of tools we talk about on this show we've got courses events there are resources out there whether they're minor they're somebody else's but you got to know that that's the way you escape the matrix you become whole you become coherent you become resonant so when the trauma out there tries to trigger you you're able to stand unshaken amidst the crash of breaking worlds this is the way and what happens because this will sound a little bit like i don't know pollyanna all right you know dave's over there at the hippie harvest smoking some of the finest green in puerto rico

22:19no maybe years ago but no not anymore i am awake i understand how it works and i am loving playing the game because it's a game you know it was 10 years ago a little more than 10 years ago but about 15 years ago now i was broke i had two homes in foreclosure i had a bunch of credit card debt i was purposeless my business was going out of business i was single for 10 years now i'm married to the woman of my dreams i live in my dream home i'm rich i have more money than i don't need to work

22:50ever again i work because i'm passionate about the game and i'm passionate about human beings and i know that if we can learn at scale collectively to pull our attention away from the old system it has to dissolve and then we get to create something new we get to build the promised land what an amazing time to be alive does that mean i don't get hooked by palantir is going to watch you from your car and there's some kill switch in your car starting with new models in 2027 and they're going to surveil you no i get hooked into the fear porn i'm telling you yes i get hooked in but i'm playing the game better

23:21and better every single day but i have money i have resources now you know and i don't say that to impress you i say that to impress upon you what's possible because if i can do it you can do it back when i had a one of my first companies in 2006 i had a bunch of young guys working for me they were like do you know how the system works like a handful of people control money the rockefellers the morgans they they sank the titanic they killed all the opposition they created the federal reserve all this stuff i was like you guys sound nuts but i'm gonna take a look at it and i took a look at it and i'm like holy shit they're right now you can throw a stone and find a youtube video about this

23:54stuff but i remember they scared me so like i'm living in orlando florida in a condo like a studio condo and i've got a closet with six months of rice beans canned tuna i have a glock a shotgun and then like ar something ar 47 i don't know how to use any of them but i'm just like the world is gonna end and i was telling everybody they need to start prepping buying gold all this stuff you know what's crazy now now i live without prepping i live in an open space where we grow our

24:28own food and over the years i bought a bunch of gold and then i got into bitcoin and you could look at me and call me a prepper but i'm not prepping i'm living my life and because i'm living my life these opportunities naturally come my way and and i take advantage of them like i'm leaving the system not by trying to kill the system but by healing myself because the thoughts and ideas will come to you the coincidences and the synchronicities will come to you your purpose will come to you community will come to you fellowship will come to you wealth will come to you and you say

25:00dave but you know you don't understand they're coming to get your shit no you don't understand there's a bifurcation that's taking place there are two paths that are unfolding right now one is in the direction of more fear more control more chaos more insecurity you know what do they talk about the mark of the beast you're gonna have to go along with the system or they're gonna shut you down all right i get it that's not the reality i'm i'm paying attention to i'm paying a lot less attention to it i'm moving in the other direction with the people who are doing blockchain and creating

25:31new systems and i i believe in the certainty of the goodness of the future i believe that more and more human beings are going to start to wake up and so reality has to reflect a higher and higher level of consciousness and i believe that as an old system dies it gets very intense and that's what's happening right now and i'm gonna stay the course i'm gonna do my work this is my work to do this is your work to do there are other people out there you know whoever it is cnn fox news candace owens joe rogan whichever side you want to sit on let them do what they're doing let them do the investigation

26:06that's their role that's not your role how do i know because you're here you're still listening to this episode that's not your role your role go heal yourself heal yourself and from that healed person the path will become visible from that healed person you'll know what to do you'll look back like i didn't go i don't understand 15 years ago i had nothing now i have more than i could ever possibly imagine and so you know if there's a problem with flights i'll rent a jet i mean i'm blown

26:39away by the fact that i can do that if i want now am i the richest person in the world no i'm not the richest person in the world do i plan on being one of the richest people in the world i think that might actually happen i think because my vision is so big and so inspired and so energetic for humanity i want to organize tens of millions hundreds of millions of people into a new consciousness and then let them build the new system it's not like dave is the next elon musk and i'm going to figure it all out that's the old way of doing it and elon musk is a different story but all these characters are there to play a role if elon musk triggers you guess what the problem is

27:16not elon musk it's you're triggered and so you got to take radical responsibility for yourself and for your life and when you do everything can change so how do you know what you need to work on pay attention to what perturbs you pay attention to what scares you pay attention to what frustrates you it's good to pay attention for a moment and then do the work heal the thing and turn the cheek and that's the way you transcend the system this is red pill blue pill shit it's like if you want out of the matrix you got to stop paying attention to it but it's alluring that's the snake in the

27:48garden that's the serpent it's cunning it's baffling it's powerful it knows that you've got fear triggers inside of you so it's going to throw fear in front of you and the crazy thing is is that the more you feed the fear the more you feed it it's the way that it works man thanks for letting me explain this thanks for letting me share it i don't know how well i've explained it but uh i get it you know just pay minimal attention to what's going on if you need to look every once in a while because you just there's something in you that feels like i need to kind of know what's going on that's fine

28:19but then step away step into the spaced step with your friends step into healthy eating healthy living step into reducing your screen time swiping caffeine alcohol drugs you got to cut all that shit out you got to cut it all out now is the time like now is the appointed time i know jesus said back then now i'm telling you now now is the time it's your time you got to take this seriously you got to make this the most important thing that you commit to in your life right now because it is

28:50because it becomes your life and i don't care what happens downstream from now if you can heal

Healing Yourself and Finding Guidance

28:56yourself you will stand unshaken and a person who is unshaken is resourceful a person who is unshaken is connected to their higher power a person who is unshaken is guided and you will be guided through whatever storm whatever chaos shows up you'll be guided but you got to be solid within yourself that's where discernment comes from because there's going to be a lot of different messages out there you're gonna have to feel your way through it who do i trust who do i believe what feels right to me my wife and i had to do that with covid like we made we had to make some decisions we said what

29:29feels right to us we were guided now we look back and we're like good guidance good guidance just realize the system knows that you got fear inside of you so we got to purge that fear out when you do man you don't just escape the system you become part of creating the new one and then you get to have it all you get to have the joy you get to have the prosperity you get to have the abundance you get to have the connection you get to serve people it doesn't mean there aren't challenges on a day-to-day base there's always challenges but those challenges are designed they're resistance training they're

30:00designed to make you stronger to make you better you know but just notice if you're paying attention to all the internet dramas or celebrity who pays attention to celebrities who gives a shit about celebrities i even you know i appreciate that people have their favorite sports teams but i'm like i'm wearing a bear jersey you know what i mean like i'm the biggest fan of david bear and the bear family like that's my team that's my squad that's who i'm practicing for every single day not not the people out there i you know get me off my soapbox i i believe in you is what i'm saying i believe in

30:33you and i know you can do this and i know that sometimes it feels hopeless but i want you to know that it's not that the prison is not primarily external the prison is internal and you can escape the system you can reclaim possibility for you it doesn't matter what's going on out there but you got to stop paying attention to the things that scare you and start being around people ideas concepts community that inspires you so we have that kind of community you know nothing to sell on

31:06this episode but if you haven't yet subscribe and jump on over to davidbear.com be a part of the community i'm going to give you a bunch of free shit amazing tools for you to start identifying the resistance that's inside of you and healing and transforming and just watch as your reality changes and as we all do this together it's a collective transformation we start to re-engineer civilization and that is what's coming down the pipeline and so you either get to be a part of this emergent parallel reality with new economies and new educational models and new health systems and new ways of living or you can stay a part of all the other stuff that you see going on the choice is yours the path

31:41is really really clear so i love you so much if there are any things we can do for you please let us know i'm just honored to be here with you and excited about where we are right now i believe in the certainty the goodness of the future and i believe in you i'll see you in the next episode hey it's david one more thing if you want to go even deeper on everything we've talked about on today's episode don't forget to jump over to www.davidbear.com you can find the link in the show notes and subscribe to our newsletter a couple of times a week i'm going to be sending

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